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Therapy for Trauma and
PTSD

Trauma can leave lasting effects long after the experience has passed. Healing is possible — and it happens at a pace that feels right for you.

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You may be experiencing

Anxiety or hypervigilance that won’t switch off

Emotional numbness or feeling detached

Intrusive memories or flashbacks

Difficulty sleeping or concentrating

A sense of always being on edge

Avoiding reminders of what happened

“These are normal responses to abnormal experiences — not signs of weakness.”
Understanding Trauma

Your nervous system is
doing its best

Trauma is not a character flaw or a sign of weakness. It is a natural response to experiences that overwhelmed your ability to cope at the time — accidents, abuse, loss, violence, or any event that felt life-threatening or deeply unsafe.

PTSD develops when the nervous system gets stuck in a state of threat, even after the danger has passed. Triggers can feel unpredictable. Emotions can seem disconnected from the present moment. Life can feel smaller than it used to.

With the right support, healing is not only possible — it is the natural direction your system wants to move in. Therapy provides the safety and structure that makes that movement possible.

Common presentations I work with
Single-event trauma
Childhood abuse or neglect
Medical trauma
Accident or injury
Complex / developmental trauma
Relationship or domestic violence
Grief and sudden loss
Vicarious or secondary trauma

My Stance

Healing happens at
your pace

I don’t believe in pushing people to re-live painful experiences before they’re ready. Trauma therapy done well is careful, collaborative, and deeply respectful of where you are.

My first priority is always safety — building the stability and trust that allow deeper processing to happen naturally over time. Many people find that the most profound shifts come not from confronting trauma head-on, but from building the inner resources to hold it differently.

I integrate psychodynamic, relational, and mindfulness-informed approaches to support healing that is sustainable — not just symptom management, but a genuine return to yourself.

Telehealth note
Sessions are offered via secure telehealth for clients throughout Hawaiʻi — allowing you to engage in therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own space, which many trauma clients find especially supportive.

What to Expect

A careful, structured process

Trauma therapy unfolds in phases — not as a rigid protocol, but as a natural arc that respects your readiness at every step.

1
Safety & Stabilization
Before anything else, we focus on building a stable foundation — coping tools, a trusting relationship, and a felt sense of safety. There is no rushing this phase.
2
Processing at Your Pace
When you're ready, we begin to gently revisit and process what happened — reducing its emotional charge so it becomes part of your story rather than something that controls you.
3
Integration & Growth
The final phase is about reclaiming your life — rebuilding identity, relationships, and a sense of possibility that trauma had narrowed or taken away.
Therapeutic Approaches

Methods I draw on for
trauma work

I integrate multiple evidence-informed approaches, always tailored to what feels right for you.

Psychodynamic Therapy
Exploring how early experiences and unconscious patterns shape your current emotional responses and relationships.
Trauma-Focused CBT
Identifying and gently challenging trauma-driven beliefs that keep you stuck in fear, shame, or self-blame.
Mindfulness-Based Approaches
Building present-moment awareness to reduce reactivity and create space between triggers and responses.
Relational Therapy
Using the therapeutic relationship as a safe context to rebuild trust and experience healthy connection.
"We move at a pace that feels right right for you — there is no pressure to revisit anything before you are ready."
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Take the First Step

Ready to begin your healing journey?

Reach out for a free 15-minute consultation. There's no obligation — just an opportunity to see if we're a good fit.

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