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Therapy for
Depression

Depression can make even the simplest things feel distant and exhausting. You don't have to find your way back alone — and you don't have to feel better before reaching out.

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You may be experiencing

A persistent low mood that won’t lift

Loss of interest in things you used to enjoy

Exhaustion even after sleeping

Feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness

Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

Withdrawing from people you care about

“Depression is not a personal failing. It is an illness — and a treatable one.”
Understanding Depression

More than sadness
and more treatable than it feels

Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions — and one of the most isolating. The cruelty of depression is that it often convinces you that nothing will help, that you are the problem, that reaching out is pointless.

None of that is true. Depression distorts perception. It narrows what feels possible. It drains the energy needed to change it. This is precisely why support from outside yourself matters — because depression makes it so hard to find your own way through.

With the right therapeutic relationship and approach, real and lasting change is possible. Many people find that understanding the roots of their depression — not just managing the symptoms — is what makes the difference.

Types of depression I work with
Major depressive disorder
Situational depression
Depression with anxiety
Depression in adolescents
Persistent depressive disorder
Postpartum depression
Grief-related depression
Relationship-linked depression

My Approach

Understanding what's
underneath

I work collaboratively to understand the full picture of your depression — not just the symptoms, but the history, the patterns, and the meaning behind it. Depression rarely comes from nowhere.

Together, we take the time to understand what you’re experiencing and begin to gently move toward greater clarity, energy, and hope. Progress in therapy doesn’t always feel linear, but it is real.

I integrate psychodynamic, cognitive, and relational approaches — which means we work on how you think, how you feel, and how your past continues to shape both. For many people, this combination is more effective than any single method alone.

Telehealth note
Sessions are available via secure telehealth throughout Hawaiʻi. For many people experiencing depression, being able to engage from home removes a significant barrier to getting started.

Depression can look different for everyone

Going through the motions
Feeling nothing at all
Crying without knowing why
Irritability and frustration
Not recognising yourself
Sleeping too much or too little
Losing appetite — or the opposite
Feeling like a burden
Cancelling plans repeatedly
Physical aches without clear cause
A constant sense of dread
Comparing yourself to who you used to be

If any of these feel familiar, you are not alone — and this is exactly the kind of thing therapy is designed to help with.

What to Expect

A gentle, structured path forward

Therapy for depression isn't about being talked into feeling better. It's a thoughtful process of understanding, then shifting, what's keeping you stuck.

1
Being Heard Without Judgment
The first and most important step is simply being fully heard. We take time to understand your experience — your history, your patterns, your life — before anything else.
2
Understanding the Roots
Together we explore what's driving your depression — the beliefs, the relational patterns, the losses — so we're working on the cause, not just the surface.
3
Building Momentum
As understanding deepens, energy and perspective begin to return. Small shifts compound into real, lasting change — a genuine re-engagement with life.
Therapeutic Approaches

Approaches I use in working with
depression treatment

Every person is different and so is every course of therapy. I tailor the approach to what fits you — your history, your personality, your goals.

Psychodynamic Therapy
Exploring how early relationships and unconscious patterns contribute to depression — and how bringing them into awareness creates lasting change.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Identifying the thought patterns that fuel depression — hopelessness, self-criticism, all-or-nothing thinking — and learning to challenge them effectively.
Relational & Interpersonal Therapy
Addressing how isolation, relationship difficulties, and grief contribute to and sustain depression — and building healthier ways of connecting.
Mindfulness-Based Approaches
Developing a different relationship with difficult thoughts and feelings — observing them without being consumed by them.
"You don't have to feel better before reaching out. Starting is the hardest part — and I'll meet you exactly where you are."
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Ready to begin your healing journey?

Reach out for a free 15-minute consultation. There's no obligation — just an opportunity to see if we're a good fit.

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