Areas of Focus

Therapy for
Adolescents

Growing up is genuinely hard. Adolescence brings real pressures — and young people deserve a space that takes their experience seriously.

Your teen may be struggling with

Anxiety, worry, or panic that’s affecting daily life

Low mood, withdrawal, or loss of motivation

Identity questions or difficulties fitting in

Academic pressure or school-related stress

Family conflict or difficulty at home

Something you can’t quite name but know isn’t right

“Adolescents don’t always have the words for what they’re feeling — but they deserve space to find them.”

A note for teens and parents alike

Both teenagers and their parents often have questions about therapy. Here's what I'd want each of you to know

If you're a teenager reading this

This is your space, not your parents'

Therapy with me is confidential. What you share stays between us — with a few important exceptions your therapist will explain clearly at the start.

You don’t have to have it all figured out to start
You won’t be judged for what you share
I’m not here to report back to your parents
You set the pace — nothing is forced
Sessions are via video — from wherever feels private

What your teen needs most is to be heard

The most effective adolescent therapy gives young people a space that belongs to them. That means confidentiality is real — and important.

I’ll update you on progress without breaching your teen’s trust
Safety concerns are always communicated — that’s non-negotiable
Parent sessions can be arranged separately when helpful
Family dynamics are often part of the work — gently
The free consultation can include you, your teen, or both

A genuinely demanding time of life

Adolescence is not just a phase to get through. It’s a profound period of development — neurologically, emotionally, socially, and psychologically. The brain is literally still forming. The pressures are real. The stakes feel enormous, because in many ways they are.

Young people today face challenges that are genuinely new: the relentless social comparison of social media, academic pressure that starts earlier than ever, identity questions that a previous generation had more time to navigate quietly. These aren’t excuses — they’re context.

Good therapy for adolescents meets them where they are. It doesn’t pathologize normal development, but it does take seriously when something more is going on — and creates a space where a young person can begin to understand themselves more clearly.

What I commonly work with
Anxiety & panic
Depression & low mood
Identity & self-esteem
Academic stress
Social difficulties
Family conflict
LGBTQ+ identity
Grief & loss
Trauma
Anger & emotional dysregulation

Building trust before anything else

Adolescents are perceptive. They know quickly whether an adult genuinely gets them or is performing concern. My first goal is always to establish real trust — which takes patience, consistency, and a willingness to follow their lead.

I don’t lecture or give advice. I ask questions, listen carefully, and help young people develop their own understanding of themselves. That respect for their autonomy is usually what allows the deeper work to happen.

I work with adolescents aged 13 and up, and I’m equally comfortable working with those who are talkative and introspective, and those who are initially reluctant or unsure why they’re there at all.

Telehealth for teens
Sessions are via secure telehealth, which many teenagers actually prefer — they can engage from their own space, on their own terms, without the added barrier of travel. Available for families throughout Hawaii.
Insurance coverage
I accept HMSA, UHA, HMAA and most major commercial insurance in Hawaii. HMSA copays are $0. Other plans are typically $20–$25. Most families find that coverage applies to their teen’s sessions too.

A process built around your teen

Adolescent therapy has its own rhythm — one that balances the young person's autonomy with appropriate family involvement.

1
Free Consultation
We start with a free 15-minute conversation — which can include a parent, the teen, or both — to discuss what's going on and answer any questions before committing to anything.
2
Building the Relationship
Early sessions focus on building trust and understanding — not rushing into difficult topics. The pace is led by the young person, always.
3
Deeper Work & Progress
As trust develops, meaningful change begins to happen — in mood, in relationships, in self-understanding, and in how the young person navigates their world.

What brings teenagers to therapy

I feel different from everyone else
My parents don't get it
I'm stressed about everything all the time
I don't know who I am anymore
I can't stop worrying about the future
I feel numb and I don't know why
School feels impossible right now
I don't have anyone I can really talk to
Something happened and I can't move on
I'm angry all the time and I hate it

You don't need to have the words or the answers. Showing up is enough to start.

"What a teenager shares in session stays there — that's not a courtesy. It's the foundation of everything."
— Lyle Herman, Psy.D.
How confidentiality works
What your teen shares is private
Sessions are confidential. I don't report the content of conversations to parents as a matter of course.
Safety is always the exception
If I have serious concerns about a young person's safety, I will communicate with parents — and I explain this clearly at the start.
Parents are kept informed — appropriately
I'll share general progress with parents in a way that supports the work without compromising the teen's trust.
"The hardest part is often just making the first call. Everything after that is one step at a time."
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